When you are going through divorce, you may be concerned about what other people think. The problem is that there are usually several reasons why people get divorced and most intuitions from the outside are usually wrong.
There's no getting around the fact that divorce hits people hard in all areas of their lives. It doesn't matter whether the divorce was initiated by you, or not. If there are children from the marriage, if you're both angry and upset, and if one or both of you need to find new places to live, divorce comes with so much stress that it sometimes feels like it's going to ruin your life forever.